In todays sexual milieu, impotence is by far one of the most serious problems faced by men. Sexual impotence was once perceived as a condition that strikes men who are 40 years old and above. However, current statistics show that it is now commonly diagnosed among younger men.
Since sexual performance is commonly associated with a mans sense of worth, sexual impotence can result to a number of psychological and emotional traumas such as shame and loss. Men tend to measure life’s success by their capacity to satisfy their partners in bed. This does not mean, however, that all men who experience this problem immediately seek help from professionals. Most of todays records on impotence basically cover complicated cases, for some men no longer consult to doctors for treatment when their conditions are noted as lighter case of impotence.
Causes of impotence
Generally, there are three main causes of sexual impotence among men—physical, psychological, and lifestyle.
As for the physical aspect of sexual impotence, most of the noted causes are curable or avoidable. However, there are some physical causes that are considered incurable, thereby requiring serious treatments and surgeries.
Among the many causes of sexual impotence are hormonal imbalance, damaged penis structure, nervous system disorders, and drug/medicinal side-effects.
Impotence due to psychological causes is also a very common phenomena among men. This may be the result of an extreme trauma that further drives a man to feel anxiety, depression, and stress. The sexual capacities of men with mental disorders may also be affected.
Aside from these, psychological impotence may occur in situations when a man no longer feels any sexual rapport or affinity with this partner. The loss of a mans interest in sex may also be a result of fatigue and too much stress.
Aside from physical and psychological causes, lifestyle preference is known to worsen most impotency conditions among men. According to studies, men who use drugs like cocaine, nicotine, and heroine are most likely to experience sexual impotence. Most obese men also tend to lose interest in sex as they become more conscious of their bodies. Men who exercise daily and have a well-nourished body are more confident about their bodies, thus, resulting to a healthier sex life.
Treatments for sexual impotence
Today, treatments for sexual impotence vary according to origin. If the cause of impotence is purely psychological, experts generally suggest therapies and supportive psychotherapy sessions. Counselling is also one of the basic parts of impotency treatments with psychological causes.
Meanwhile, surgery and implants are the best treatments commonly recommended by most doctors to sexual impotency cases with physical causes. In addition, oral medicaments are also prescribed by doctors along with such surgical procedure.
There are also alternative oral medications like herbal capsules that many men use today. Although these oral medications are noted to be ineffective and are not prescribed or recommended by most doctors, many still purchase and use these products due to their helpful psychological effects.
Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’
This is such a common problem that guys have!
What text do you send to a girl after you get her number?
Sounds simple right? But, if it’s so simple, then why do so many guys end up with FLAKEY numbers?
I believe, that when I give my number to a guy I have met, that there is POTENTIAL! However, guys usually screw it up when it comes to the text message, and as a result like most girls, I decide to be a FLAKE!
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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’
What better way to learn how to attract women and how to get a girlfriend than by learning from a woman dating coach?
I know I know, most women usually dish out the same old vague and nice but essentially ineffective advice such as:
“Just be yourself”
“Be more confident”
“Make her laugh”
Which in all fairness is pretty lame! And you are probably sick of your female friends giving you weak feedback. Equally, you are also probably tired of hearing the arrogant and ineffective advice from your male friends.
However, have you ever considered what it would be like to get an HONEST female opinion and an HONEST and NO NONSENSE and DIRECT insight into the female mind? Obtaining such a powerful tool, is something that most male dating coaches and so called pick up artists will struggle to give you.
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Men might not like to admit it, but even they have convinced themselves and others that they are fulfilled with one night stands and casual flings, there is the desire and a hope that one day they will find the woman of their dreams.
A man ultimately seeks that special woman who will love him, inspire him and who he can love back unconditionally.
So how can you achieve this?
Let me start by asking you this:
Will you find a girlfriend by continuously sleeping with a never-ending list of women until something just ‘clicks’ with one of them?
Will you find a girlfriend through your social circle? Whereby one of your friends introduces you to a great girl who also happens to be looking for a boyfriend too!
Will you get a girlfriend at work?
Will you meet a girl randomly in a bar or a night club or even in the local book store?
Will you find her through online dating?
The answer to ALL these questions is ‘YES’
Never listen to people who say you will NEVER meet a girlfriend in a night club or online, because nice girls looking for boyfriends don’t hang out in bars, OR only desperate or ugly women join online dating websites. These opinions are totally unfounded and untrue.
There are literally millions of men who have met their girlfriends and even their wives via nightclubs and bars, and in regards to online dating, the figures speak for themselves (21 percent of americans found their partner through online dating)
What these men who have no problem in getting girlfriends have in common, is that they have been PROACTIVE with their search for a girlfriend. Most men rely on meeting a girlfriend through friends or at work, which obviously is a common way to find a girlfriend, but it is a LAZY way, and is something you have probably already relied on for too long.
The problem with relying on meeting your future girlfriend through friends, is that eventually your friends will get older and start settling down, and by the time you hit 30-35 the frequent introductions to their single female friends will dwindle. This will leave you with the option of meeting girls in night clubs and bars or online dating anyway, so why not get the practice in before then. It’s worth mentioning here that a lot of guys come to me or my courses is because they literally are out of practice when it comes to talking to women in clubs and bars, because they had spent years relying on introductions to girls from their circle of friends. Warning: Never be out of practice, because you never know when you will need to use those skills again.
My advice is to use all the possible resources that I have listed above , BUT, and this is really important, do NOT believe that if you still haven’t got a girlfriend that it just a matter of time!
You need to not only be proactive, but you need to also KNOW exactly what to do when you actually meet a girl, in order to get her to be your girlfriend. Otherwise you will be stuck in the cycle of meeting a girl and losing her and then meeting another girl and another girl and losing them too. So many wasted chances and opportunities are something you will regret as those chances and opportunities inevitably become less and less frequent.
Here are 5 rules you need remember in order to increase your chances of getting a girlfriend
RULE 1: “Have a clear list of what you want”
You might think that being open minded in regards to what you look for in a girlfriend will keep your options open. But in reality, you will end up coming across as the guy who will take whatever he can get! Women want to date a man who has high standards, as it makes us feel more special to be with him, and it also make us believe we have had to work for it. So make sure you have a clear idea of what you want and don’t be afraid to convey this to her. The chances are she will respect you a lot more and be more eager to please.
RULE 2: “Never be too available”
Men and indeed women too, tend to make the mistake of becoming to available and eager when they meet someone they really like. This results in the other one taking them for granted, and to be completely honest with you, it reeks of desperation. A girl might say she likes a guy to call her and be available to spend lots of time with her, but in reality, women love to chase the guy and they respect him a whole lot more when he has demonstrated to them that he has a busy life and a fully booked diary of social events.
Make sure she appreciates the time she gets to spend with you, and in time, become more available, just make sure you don’t do it too soon!
RULE 3: “Don’t ignore her after you have had sex together”
Men often avoid seeing a girl again after she has slept with him, because he convinces himself that she cant possibly be girlfriend material if she slept with him so quickly. This is a ridiculously old fashioned point of view and it could ruin an amazing opportunity of a beautiful relationship. Do you really think that because a girl says ‘NO’ to sex until a certain amount of dates have taken place, and until her friends tell her she should, and providing the the guy has purchased enough gifts for her to decide she should sleep with him, that that makes her excellent girlfriend material?????A woman following dating advice from a magazine or demanding a man takes her out on expensive dinner dates before she sleeps with him does NOT automatically mean she will be loving wonderful girlfriend.
Make sure also not to go too overboard after you have both had sex together the first time either. Next day send her a text telling her you had a fun evening and a mention your plans for the day ahead to and ask her what her plans are for the rest of the week. This shows her you are not ignoring her but that you’re also not making yourself too available either. Suggest going for dinner around a week later.
RULE 4: “READ her”
Listen to those stories about her ex boyfriends, it might be dull, but it’s a great way to see what type of men she usually goes for. If she talks badly about her ex boyfriends and refers to them as bastards and womanizers, then take this is as a warning. This girl obviously goes for guys who treat her mean, which does not set a positive precedence for a happy relationship. Of course, she could have just had a run of bad luck, but in my experience of having a lot of female friends who endlessly complain about their heartless ex boyfriends, is that they tend to be caught up in an unhealthy cycle of being attracted to men who are no good for them.
If she speaks highly of her ex boyfriends, DO NOT get annoyed by it, instead welcome it as a sign that she has good taste in men and is still sincerely looking for a happy relationship.
RULE 5: “Let her make the first move”
What I mean by this, is that you need to let the girl bring up the idea of getting into a relationship with you, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!
At some point, she will bring it up, and if she doesn’t bring it up directly, then trust me, she will make it clear to you that she’s angry about something. Rest assured that this is simply due to the frustration she feels as a result of you not making her officially your girlfriend. This is her way of communicating to you that she wants more from you, and therefore in this particular case it is perfectly ok for you to see this as a green light and to make her your OFFICIAL girlfriend.
OTHERWISE, never ask her to be your girlfriend or to make her feel cornered into making the decision to get into a relationship with you. Women want to chase a guy, they want it to be a challenge, and again this leads back to RULE 2 about never being too available.
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Adult online dating services are a specialized niche in online dating, offering a number of similar features such as full searching capabilities and a large number of subscribers. Completely anonymous and secure, adult online dating services feature erotic personals, where one can view sexy photos of other members. Simply register and immediately contact any member via instant messaging, plus you can search or apply filters that allow you to narrow down the members that suit your specific needs and desires. Many adult online dating services allow all members to add a profile to the site, chat, send instant messages, and browse through their huge database of profiles for free. Guests may enter the site and browse around, but in order to post a listing or use all of the site features you must register as a member.
The benefits of adult online dating involve:
- The ability for less sexually experienced or shy personalities to express and explore their sexual nature.
- It is a safe secure environment to practice safe, virtual sex.
- The ability to feel comfortable with the cybersex partner due to the anonymous nature of the Internet and adult chatrooms.
Just as adult dating online has its set of advantages, there can be drawbacks to overindulgence. The dangers of adult dating services online, particularly pertaining to cybersex, involve:
- Not knowing the person you are dealing with – the Internet cannot screen the age or sex of participants, potentially causing ethical concerns.
- People can take online adult dating services too seriously and personally. Reports have been noted on cybersex addiction.
- Internet adult dating could potentially ruin your physical sex life due to the lack of anonymity in the physical space.
- It is not healthy to experience only online relationships as this will deter you from entering real physical relationships.
If and when you are ready to use this medium, weigh the pros and cons of adult online dating to ensure that both you and other members have an enjoyable and positive experience.
Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of emotions has also been conquered. Donít try to think dirty here folks. What Iím talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or MIRC.
Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms.
After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just chatting. Both persons may just be really looking for someone to talk to.
Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you wonít see the other person thinking that itís corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud).
Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes very hard. This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really you. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is.
Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person. Since it is easier to talk online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is. The person instead is like living both worlds.
When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is being able to adjust. Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the personís mannerisms. This will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome. Once you have gone past this, the rest will be easier.
It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent disappointment and heartaches.
The art of reciprocation has been used by many leaders to influence people. It is covert and effective. Assume someone gives you a gift or does a favor for you without asking for something in return, doesn’t that trigger a feeling of obligation from you to return the favor? Yes it does. Well it is the same if someone shares with you something about himself/herself. On an unconscious level you would ask yourself why that person is sharing personal information with you if he doesn’t trust you. So you would open up and start reciprocating building connection and trust to that person. One technique you can use is to reveal something about yourself casually and then turn the conversation back to her. Coupled with good questions, she would usually reciprocate and start talking about herself.
In his book “Persuasion Skills: The Black Book”, Rintu Basu reveals that the quickest and simplest way to build rapport with a woman is to assume you already are in rapport with her. On an unconscious level, she will pick up the signals your sending and she will respond by reciprocating. Do that experiment next time you are around your best friend. Notice the level of rapport between both of you. Isn’t it natural and built in? So what I suggest next time you are around a woman, imagine she is your best friend, act around her as natural as you act with your friend and then assume rapport while conversing with her.
Meeting women that you would actually want to date and, maybe eventually, bring home to meet mom and dad, isnít as hard as it sounds. There is, of course, the singles scene out in the bars and clubs all over town but I donít recommend that one. Itís not that just bad girls go to bars; itís that it is hard to tell the good ones from the bad one.
You meet women at work, too, but, there again, I donít recommend dating them. The problem with that is that, if things donít work out, you will still have to work together and the situation could be awkward to say the least.
Your friends know women that you havenít met – sisters, cousins, etc. Ask them to introduce you to them. But, big brother, do avoid blind dates. Those things hardly ever work out and you can spend a lot of money for a very uncomfortable evening.
The best places to meet women that you might actually want to date are at clubs and organizations that you belong to. You will already have something in common with them and will have had the opportunity to see them interact with other people and that tells you a lot about a person. If you arenít already involved with any clubs or organizations the, for heaven sakes, join some. Find ones that are all about something you are interested in. There are clubs and organizations that cover just about anything you can think of from astronomy to zoology and single women are involved in all of them.
Church is an excellent place to meet women. If there arenít any single women in the church you go to now, visit other churches until you find one where there are single women. The church itself will provide you with an opportunity to get to know the woman before you ask her for a date. You will be a lot more comfortable and so will she.
Get involved in civic organizations. Women love men who are civic minded. They admire men who are willing to ìgive backî. And what about political campaigns? You will meet a lot of young women who are passionate about politics.
If all else fails, join a good online dating service. You will meet a lot of eligible women. You can read their profiles and see pictures of them. After you get to know one well enough to ask her for a face-to-face meeting, be sure that you plan the meeting during daylight hours and in a public place.
What better way to DISCOVER how to get a woman into your bed than from a woman!
The secrets to getting ANY woman you want in to bed can be found the ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD SET.
Here are a few powerful tips that will help you get started:
1. Make her feel desired
Make her feel desired but do this SPORADICALLY! Us women love to feel sexually desired, but if a man overwhelms a woman with this, then the novelty can wear off too quickly. Make sure that each time you look into her eyes and communicate your intention and what you want to do to her , that you immediately break rapport, by changing the non-verbal energy and the topic to something less intense and more platonic, as if nothing happened. I like to call this method ‘push-pull’. It’s a method I share with my students who have al gone on to tell me how much it has helped them! This method puts her in a mini state of limbo, and leaves her wanting more!
2. Convey the fact you have lots of women to choose from
Most women will tell you NOT to do this! But the truth is, women are usually attracted to men who have an abundance of women in their lives. It might initially annoy or concern us, but ultimately it makes us so attracted to them!
In order to achieve this, AVOID talking about your actual desire for other women, and instead, have a few pre-selected anecdotes about girls you know or have dated. But never make it seem you have an interest in them, because this will only provoke her anger.The aim is for her to agknoweldge that you have desirable women in your life and in your past, as this will produce just the right amount of jealousy in her, and as a result it will encourage her to want to impress you. A man who has conveys the fact that he has other women to choose from, demonstrates something I like to call ‘PRE-SELECTION’ and possessing this asset can literally seal the deal!
3. Be totally unapologetic about what you want in bed!
Again, my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD SET explains how you can get a girl to do anything you want in bed, but the principal behind this that you need to remember in order to make it work, is to have and to communicate a totally unapologetic attitude to what you find a ‘turn on’.
Us women are so attracted to men who know exactly what they want in bed! However, if you show any uncertainty or embarrassment when conveying to a girl what you want in bed, then this will result in TURNING HER OFF. So remember to be bold when telling her what you want, and that boldness and unapologetic attitude, will convey your sexual confidence ,and it is PRECISELY hat sexual confidence that us women are searching for!
4. Create an ideal setting.
Now this might sound like common sense, but you would be surprised by how many times guys GET THIS so wrong! Always make sure that the place where you are taking the girl back to, is ready for SEX!
LIGHTING: Make sure you have flattering light. Most guys do not bother to invest in just a simple ‘light dimmer’ and regard candles and lamps as an unnecessary waste of time. However, women tend to be usually self conscious about their bodies and prefer flattering soft lighting more than the choice of either pitch black darkness or a bright and unflattering light!
SUPPLIES : make sure your refrigerator and kitchen cupboards are filled with quick and easy to prepare food and drinks! You dont want her to find excuses such as:”Im hungry can we order some food?” or “Do you have anything to drink besides beer?” Always keep the momentum going, and never allow easily avoidable things become an issue.
CLEAN AND FRESH: Make sure your room/apartment is clean and tidy. Women love their creature comforts, so AGAIN do not let something as trivial as unchanged sheets or an empty pizza box become an excuse for her to not sleep with you!
5. Use future projections!
Women do not want to feel they are being used.They need some sort of reassurance that you will want to see them again. Rather than using logical persuasion on her, or coming across as desperate by promising her that you want to see her again! Simply throw in a few calculated ‘future projections’ such as:
“I Know this great Italian restaurant which serves the best desserts, I have to take you there”
“I’m looking forward to seeing you when its winter/summer I want to see how you dress”
These are ‘throw away’ and ‘playful’ future projections that plant the seed in her mind that you will both see each other again, without you coming across as desperate and without actually making any promises you can’t keep.
There are literally hundreds of more tips, skills, methods and insights I can share with you, in far more greater detail in my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD SET which has helped thousands of men attract the women they desire. Contained within these DVDs are the most powerful skills and secrets you can possess. I give you the most HONEST and DIRECT insight into the female mind.
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